Decoding Childhood Programming – Trauma, Neglect & Abuse

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When a situation of abuse or extreme neglect has taken place, some learned information needs to be edited or deleted altogether. We all are “programmed” to one degree or another in that all of us are given guidelines for behavior and thinking at an early age. It’s usually termed, raising children. In most homes we’re … Read more

Personal Development

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Personal Development: As to the subject of personal development, sometimes, many times, we follow some catchy term, program or system without really delving into their meaning and the possible effect adhering to them or failing to might have on our lives. When we desire to improve ourselves we sometimes fall prey to a plan, a program, seminar or … Read more

The Same Old Same Old

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The same old same old can lead to complacency. Structure is good in most instances, in that it gives us some degree of assurance, a sense of stability and a semblance of security. Most of us if thrust into a situation or lifestyle that was without any structure whatsoever, would find that life far too fluid and uncomfortable. We … Read more

How To Get Ahead After Getting Behind

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Sometimes we wonder how to get ahead after getting behind and most of us have been there… There are very few of us who have been able to stay on a chosen course throughout all of our life.  Each of us has his or her individual and personalized goals and sometimes, many times, we just aren’t … Read more

Discouragement – Friend or Foe

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Discouragement can be a friend or a formidable foe. In the realm of personal development, when we’re embarking on a program to increase ourselves in some vital area, there will come a time when it seems like nothing is working out correctly. This time usually comes after the point where we’ve written out and refined our … Read more

Prioritizing Priorities

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In today’s incredibly fast paced world where multi-tasking is the norm and not the exception prioritizing priorities is an added layer to our weekly or daily planning. With all the devices we put to use today, the smart phones, the pads and tablets, laptops, et al, it’s pretty much amazing how much we can get accomplished.  … Read more

Self Awareness-Key To Personal Development

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Self awareness is key to personal development Well ok, that sounds fine, but how do you define self-awareness?  If you sat down and said to yourself, “I want to know more about me, who am I really?  What do I really want from life, from my position right now?”  Would those few questions be enough to … Read more

Three Attitudes We All Must Put In Their Place

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There are three attitudes that we all must put in their place.  And the place we must put them is anywhere but in the forefront of our minds and emotions. Preferably the place to dispose of them is to relegate them to a past that we must decide will no longer have control over us. We all … Read more

Success Isn’t Found In The Dreaming Only

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I like people who dream, think, wonder and ponder.  It’s how things are started, with a tiny concept that mushrooms. However, it’s not how things actually get done.  The success isn’t in found in the dreaming only, it’s in the doing of the dream where results meet hope. Is hoping out of style?  It’d better … Read more

A Solid Foundation

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There are an innumerable list of subjects that can be discussed as a personal development, motivational and inspirational blogger and I enjoy dealing with all of them. In fact the list of important and necessary subjects truly is endless, and all topics that would make the list have very positive benefits and should be dealt with and discussed. Some subjects … Read more

Core Values or Crowd Values

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There’s usually a point in our journey in life when we are confronted with a moral dilemma.  Either please the crowd, the powers that be or hold fast to your convictions.  Core values or crowd values will inevitably become an issue. Now of course if your basic, foundational convictions are not subject to that pesky … Read more

Leave A Mark

I think everyone can agree that the world has become a very serious place. With all the gloom and doom in the news media everyday, it’s difficult sometimes to keep your chin up. So much comes at us from every direction and sometimes we need some good news to elevate our attitude so we can … Read more

Values

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Values, a gift we give ourselves that’s truly worth more than silver, gold and jewels. Most of us when we rise in the morning, start with the list of to-do’s that comes almost automatically to our mind. As we start to move about we go over the list quickly and start to prioritize the things … Read more

Dreaming

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Never let others say you’re only dreaming, that you’re just a dreamer.  Just a dreamer?  That’s about as naïve as saying, “Well, I’m only human.” If you truly think about both of those sentences, they are in actuality incredible statements and concepts.  Every journey that has produced solid results started with dreaming then a thought, a hope or an idea … Read more

What Goes Up Doesn’t Have To Come Down

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We’ve all heard the saying, “What goes up, must come down.” I really don’t believe you can apply that reasoning carte blanche to everything. Personally, I believe what goes up doesn’t have to come down especially if it’s in the realm of personal development. There are so many things that all of us want to … Read more

Lending A Helping Hand Will Also Help You

Lending a helping hand will also help you.  Engaging in selfless activities from time to time assists us with gaining a proper perspective on our own situations. It’s simply an accurate fact that lending a helping hand will also help you and it’s one of the cornerstones to proper personal development.  Life is precarious at best and … Read more

Find Your Niche

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Everyone questions their present situation and position in life’s journey from time to time. If you’re young and starting out in life there are so many paths that can be taken and so many things that can interest you that most of the time to be effectively searching to find your niche is simply a process … Read more